my age, I went to school with her. She's the type of girl who is very supportive of every stupid thing Ive ever done in my life (and continue to do). Over the years she has gone "off the derech", (as I did at one point) but has told me that she has been going to chabad and has expressed an interest in being frum again, but through all of this talk, she continues to date her non-Jewish boyfriend. The reason, she says, is that no frum guy wants her right now (she hasn't actually made the commitment to be frum again, so THAT would be why).
Now she tells me that, with her (frum) parents blessing, she will be marrying her non-Jewish boyfriend in the near future. She wants to have children and a family, etc. She insists that she will be able to send her children to yeshiva and be frum, even though her husband isnt Jewish, and maybe she can. However, thought Im very much a "live and let live" kind of person, I strongly disagree, and am having a REALLY hard time feeling excited for her.
On one hand, I guess if she's happy, and her parents dont care, then, why should I? I suppose the answer lies in the bigger picture. I strongly feel that to intermarry, and by extension, support it, is to contribute to the downfall of the Jewish people. (For the record, my SO thinks this is a very extreme view).
So now, what do I do? So far I have managed to steer wedding talk to a different topic, but its only a matter of time before I will be forced to say something, either outright, or in the form of declining an invitation.
What would you do?